My Philosophy

I believe in self expression and fulfillment and commend your courage to explore your deepest needs and desires. I am here to share your journey and make it all you want it to be in a safe and non-judgmental way.

While these experiences are exciting and exhilarating they also carry some risks. With risks comes responsibility both as the giver(Top) and the receiver(Bottom) of these experiences. I have the expectation that you are emotionally and physically ready and take full responsibility for your feelings and actions in your play sessions. You want to be able to explore your desires while also being aware of your limitations and being able to verbalize them with Me.

When it comes to safer BDSM play people can follow

  • PRICK - Personal-Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink
  • RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink
  • SSC - Safe, Sane & Consensual

I encourage you find out what these acronyms mean and decide for yourself which one best resonates with you.

What to Expect

House Rules

  • What happens in the dungeon, stays in the dungeon.
  • Protect everyone's privacy
  • Arrive on time, not early; leave on time
  • Be respectful of the space
  • No drugs or alcohol
  • Be freshly showered
  • Be honest and trustworthy

Expectations & Preparations

Questions to ask yourself

  • What do you want from this play session?
  • Do you want to try something new?
  • Do you just want a fun play session?
  • Something off your bucket list?
  • This scene would be a success for me if...?
  • How do you want to be treated? roughly, softly, playfully?
  • What language do you want to incorporate into your scene?

I will strive to create the space you need to indulge in your fantasies, however, what sounds good in your head sometimes does not translate into real life. Please be aware of the difference between fantasy and reality.

If perhaps you are not ready to try this in real life, I am happy to coach you through your fantasies and how to turn them into reality! Alternatively, I also offer online domination which can fulfill your desires within your comfort zone. Tasks and rituals are a great way to dip your toes into this fantastic world of kink!

Please be respectful of My time and I will be delighted to work within your financial, spiritual and physical restraints. Having said that, I am not a free sex chat service.

Looking forward to meeting you!